Hi am Richard Williams But Everyone knows me as mysterywolf818

I Have

Learning Disability: Some things that might feel simple or quick for others can take me longer. i might need information explained in a clear way or repeated, and that doesn’t mean i’m not smart – it just means my brain processes differently

ADHD: My attention and energy can be all over the place. Sometimes i struggle to focus, sometimes i hyperfocus. i may forget things even if they matter to me, but it’s never because i don’t care.

Autism: I can find social situations or sensory environments overwhelming. Routines and clear communication help me feel safe. I might not always know the “right” way to react, but my feelings for you are very real.

OCD: I Sometimes get stuck in repetitive thoughts or rituals that i can’t just “turn off.” It can be exhausting, and I appreciate patience when i seem caught up in it.

PTSD: Certain Things can trigger strong emotional reactions or memories from past experiences, When that happens’ I might shut down, get anxious, or need space to feel safe again.

My name is Zel, and I live with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS), PTSD, OCD, and ADHD. Each condition affects me differently, but together they have shaped how I see the world, relate to others, and support people around me.
Hidradenitis suppurativa is a chronic and painful condition that impacts my physical comfort, energy levels, and confidence. It requires resilience, patience, and self-management, especially on difficult flare-up days.
I also live with PTSD following experiences of domestic violence. While trauma has left lasting effects—such as heightened awareness, emotional intensity, and sensitivity—I have worked hard to understand my triggers and develop tools to regulate and control my responses. My PTSD no longer defines me; instead, it has deepened my insight and emotional intelligence.
My OCD affects how my mind processes thoughts, often bringing intrusive or repetitive thinking. Through awareness and coping strategies, I’ve learned how to challenge these patterns rather than be ruled by them.
My ADHD influences my focus, energy, and organisation, but it also brings creativity, passion, and the ability to think deeply and empathetically.
One of my greatest strengths is empathy. I have a strong ability to put myself in other people’s shoes, especially those dealing with trauma. I understand narcissistic behaviour firsthand and recognise its impact, which allows me to support others with clarity and validation. I truly thrive when helping people, particularly those navigating PTSD, by sharing practical tools, reassurance, and understanding so they can regain a sense of control.
My lived experiences have not weakened me—they’ve made me compassionate, insightful, and purpose-driven. Helping others heal is not just something I do; it’s a core part of who I am.

Hi my name is Kelly I have learning difficulties sleep apnea and I have recently been diagnosed with autism I get shy and insecure in certain settings and it takes me time to get comfortable around people I don’t know. i need reassurance on a regular basis as I question everything I say and do but that also because I have childhood trauma I have made an amazing friend group who I can open up and talk to and even though it takes me time to warm to someone I would love to help people and my friends tell me I’m great at giving advice. i’m most happiest when I’m with my three dogs and ferret who I spoil and love so much.